Y4 Humility behaviour illustration

Yourself behaviour Y4

Humility

Leadership is not about being the expert in the room. Lead without ego: listen, admit mistakes, share credit and own the outcome.

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What this behaviour looks like

The window and the mirror

A leader asks colleagues, pupils and the people closest to the work for their view before deciding, and admits what they do not know. When things go well they credit others; when things go wrong they take responsibility and share what they learned.

A practical example

Redesigning lunchtime

Already decided“I have designed a new playground rotation with fixed zones. It starts on Monday, and I will let you know how it goes.”

Open to learning“I think fixed zones could reduce conflict, but you see lunchtime every day and I do not. Where does trouble build, and which children need somewhere quieter? If the new plan works, the credit is yours; if it does not, that is on me.”

The question

Admit you do not know where lunchtime trouble builds.

The voices

Ask the midday supervisors, who see lunchtime every day.

The ownership

Credit their ideas and answer for the final decision.

Now try it with a decision you are close to making.

Write what you are unsure about, whose view you have not yet heard and how you will credit their contribution while owning the final decision.

Y4 · Resources for your setting

Put ‘Humility’ into practice

Develop your own practice or lead the learning with your team. Use the chapter and workbook to explore the behaviour, then choose the resources that fit your next step.

Y4 Humility Playbook cover

Apply · Your leadership practice

Put it to work

Use the Y4 Playbook to turn the behaviour into practical action on a real leadership challenge.

  • Practical toolkit and coaching prompts
  • A practice script to rehearse your approach
  • A 90-day plan to guide your next steps

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Y4 Humility: PowerPoint slide

Apply · Learning with your team

Lead a team session

Use the Y4 INSET PowerPoint to help colleagues explore the behaviour and plan how to put it into practice.

  • Editable slides to adapt to your setting
  • Speaker notes to support facilitation
  • Discussion, rehearsal and planning

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Completed Playbooks

See Y4 applied in eight leadership contexts

Choose your role to explore the challenge, the leader’s response and the intended result. Members can read the complete example and download an editable Word copy.

In a primary school

In a secondary school

Across schools

Selected completed example

In a primary school · Headteacher

Redesigning lunchtime with those who see it

Zach · Headteacher · 416-pupil primary school

Worked example at a glance

Redesigning lunchtime with those who see it

The challengeLunchtime conflict is rising and participation is uneven. The headteacher favours a tightly supervised rotation but does not know whether it will reduce conflict or overload supervisors and push out quieter pupils.

What the leader doesThe headteacher runs a paid workshop for midday supervisors and pupil groups, names what is open and fixed, and when a parent asks something the headteacher cannot answer, says so and promises a call by Thursday.

What success looks likeBy day 30 the pilot should run only where the planned provision is secured; by day 60 adjustments should respond to pupil and supervisor evidence; by day 90 the adopted model should improve pupils' belonging and readiness for the afternoon.

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Read the full toolkit, coaching and practice scripts, and 90-day plan. Members can view the PDF here and download an editable Word copy.

Further reading

Cover of Good to Great by Jim Collins

Recommended book

Good to Great – Jim Collins (2001)

This text deepens your understanding by illustrating how humility, when paired with resolve, creates exceptional, values-driven leadership.

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References from the Everyone Succeeds book

  • Collins, J. (2001) Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap… and Others Don't. London: Random House Business Books. Buy on Amazon ↗
  • Schein, E.H. (2013) Humble Inquiry: The Gentle Art of Asking Instead of Telling. San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler. Buy on Amazon ↗
  • Fullan, M. (2001) Leading in a Culture of Change. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass. Buy on Amazon ↗
  • Harris, A. (2004) 'Distributed leadership and school improvement: Leading or misleading?', Educational Management Administration & Leadership, 32(1), pp. 11–24. View article ↗

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