L6 Leaders Eat Last behaviour illustration

Leadership behaviour L6

Leaders Eat Last

When staff feel safe and supported, pupils get the care they need. Put others' needs first to build a Circle of Safety.

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What this behaviour looks like

Building a Circle of Safety

A leader protects colleagues' time for teaching, cuts meetings and admin that add little, and listens and acts on staff feedback. Staff feel safe to take risks, admit mistakes and ask for help, so pupils get the attention and care they need.

A practical example

Passing on an external data request

Passing it down“Please see the attached return from the region and complete every section by Friday.”

Filtering it first“The region has asked for a data return. We already hold most of it, so our data manager will fill in those fields. You only need to check what is left, and I will deal with any questions from the region.”

The pressure

A regional data return is heading to colleagues for Friday.

The shield

The data manager completes every field the school already holds.

The support

Colleagues check only what is left; regional queries come to the leader.

Now try it with one demand this week.

Pick one request heading for your team, decide what you can absorb or remove, and check in with the colleague most affected.

L6 · Resources for your setting

Put ‘Leaders Eat Last’ into practice

Develop your own practice or lead the learning with your team. Use the chapter and workbook to explore the behaviour, then choose the resources that fit your next step.

L6 Leaders Eat Last Playbook cover

Apply · Your leadership practice

Put it to work

Use the L6 Playbook to turn the behaviour into practical action on a real leadership challenge.

  • Practical toolkit and coaching prompts
  • A practice script to rehearse your approach
  • A 90-day plan to guide your next steps

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L6 Leaders Eat Last: PowerPoint slide

Apply · Learning with your team

Lead a team session

Use the L6 INSET PowerPoint to help colleagues explore the behaviour and plan how to put it into practice.

  • Editable slides to adapt to your setting
  • Speaker notes to support facilitation
  • Discussion, rehearsal and planning

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Completed Playbooks

See L6 applied in eight leadership contexts

Choose your role to explore the challenge, the leader’s response and the intended result. Members can read the complete example and download an editable Word copy.

In a primary school

In a secondary school

Across schools

Selected completed example

In a primary school · Headteacher

Easing the reporting period

Rebecca · Headteacher · 315-pupil coastal primary school

Worked example at a glance

Easing the reporting period

The challengeOne teacher has been in before eight every day for a fortnight and her reports are being rewritten twice, while the reporting period stretches everyone.

What the leader doesThe headteacher meets the teacher privately in protected time, then removes one optional demand for the whole staff, making the decision fair and visible without linking it to her.

What success looks likeBy day 30 every team should have protected planning time and one optional demand removed; by day 60 reports should be completed on time without repeated late working; by day 90 staff should report lower avoidable workload.

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Turn this example into action

Read the full toolkit, coaching and practice scripts, and 90-day plan. Members can view the PDF here and download an editable Word copy.

Further reading

Cover of Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek

Recommended book

Leaders Eat Last – Simon Sinek (2014)

This text strengthens the behaviour by exploring how leaders who put others first create safety, loyalty and collective performance.

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References from the Everyone Succeeds book

  • Greenleaf, R.K. (1977) Servant Leadership: A Journey into the Nature of Legitimate Power and Greatness. New York: Paulist Press. Buy on Amazon ↗
  • Hester, W.T. (2020) The Whole Teacher: Growing Educator Resilience and Well-Being. Doctoral capstone (EdLD), Harvard Graduate School of Education. Read free ↗
  • Sinek, S. (2014) Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don't. London: Portfolio Penguin. Buy on Amazon ↗

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