L1 Lead by Example behaviour illustration

Leadership behaviour L1

Lead by Example

Staff and pupils adopt what they see you do far more than what you say. Live your standards daily and trust follows.

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What this behaviour looks like

Out front, alongside the team

A leader is first at the gate, joins CPD alongside colleagues and trials a new policy before asking others to use it. Pupils and staff see words and actions match, including under pressure, when the leader stays calm and steps in to help.

A practical example

Covering morning arrival on a short-staffed day

Reminder from the office“Please cover every duty point promptly. I will catch up with emails in the office while you manage arrival.”

Leading from the gate“Two colleagues are absent, so I will be on the lower gate from 8.20 until the last pupil is in. If you are on duty, I will see you there. Every pupil should meet a calm, welcoming adult this morning, and that starts with me.”

The standard

Be at the duty point on time and ready to welcome pupils.

The example

Take the lower gate yourself from 8.20 on a short-staffed day.

The ripple

Colleagues and pupils see the leader keep the standard under pressure.

Now try it with one duty you ask of others.

Pick one standard you ask of colleagues, decide where they will see you model it, and note each day whether your actions matched your words.

L1 · Resources for your setting

Put ‘Lead by Example’ into practice

Develop your own practice or lead the learning with your team. Use the chapter and workbook to explore the behaviour, then choose the resources that fit your next step.

L1 Lead by Example Playbook cover

Apply · Your leadership practice

Put it to work

Use the L1 Playbook to turn the behaviour into practical action on a real leadership challenge.

  • Practical toolkit and coaching prompts
  • A practice script to rehearse your approach
  • A 90-day plan to guide your next steps

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L1 Lead by Example: PowerPoint slide

Apply · Learning with your team

Lead a team session

Use the L1 INSET PowerPoint to help colleagues explore the behaviour and plan how to put it into practice.

  • Editable slides to adapt to your setting
  • Speaker notes to support facilitation
  • Discussion, rehearsal and planning

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Completed Playbooks

See L1 applied in eight leadership contexts

Choose your role to explore the challenge, the leader’s response and the intended result. Members can read the complete example and download an editable Word copy.

In a primary school

In a secondary school

Across schools

Selected completed example

In a primary school · Headteacher

Leading the morning gate

Gareth · Headteacher · 430-pupil urban primary school

Worked example at a glance

Leading the morning gate

The challengeStaff arrival and gate cover vary on pressured mornings, and leaders sometimes send reminders from their offices rather than joining the routine themselves.

What the leader doesThe headteacher leads the lower gate from before opening and introduces a lead-and-reserve rota, so calm, punctual mornings no longer depend on who happens to be free, then reviews every exception fairly.

What success looks likeBy day 30 every morning should have a confirmed senior lead and reserve; by day 60 at least 95% of leadership duties should be completed as planned; by day 90 at least 80% of staff should agree leaders keep the standard they ask of others.

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Turn this example into action

Read the full toolkit, coaching and practice scripts, and 90-day plan. Members can view the PDF here and download an editable Word copy.

Further reading

Cover of Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek

Recommended book

Leaders Eat Last – Simon Sinek (2014)

This book reinforces the behaviour by showing how modelling actions and values shape culture more powerfully than instruction.

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References from the Everyone Succeeds book

  • Covey, S.R. (2004) The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change. New York: Free Press. Buy on Amazon ↗
  • Goleman, D., Boyatzis, R. and McKee, A. (2002) Primal Leadership: Realizing the Power of Emotional Intelligence. Boston, MA: Harvard Business School Press. Buy on Amazon ↗
  • Lencioni, P.M. (2012) The Advantage: Why Organizational Health Trumps Everything Else in Business. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass. Buy on Amazon ↗

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